Some people are just charming, they have what we call “חן”. Everybody wants to be beloved by people, but how do you get to that חן?
The holy Sefer Chareidim writes that נח and חן have the same letters. And here’s the secret: As you learn to be “BeNoach” – to be cool calm and collected, that’s how you’re bringing חן upon yourself, and you get that charm that endears you to others… Today.